My Mother and brother are Narcissist.

The narcissist likes to terrorize and instill fear in other people because it's the only way to know how to react. My brother gets hysterical and abuses me mentally and emotionally, than my mother gets hysterical, defends my brother and attacks me and this leaves me a nervous wreck. I can't cope with it and it's too much stress. I can't cope with either of them. I feel traumatized by all of this which is why I am trying to find my own house.

Not to mention the stupidity of my family. My Aunt is a Narcissist also and she hates me and needs my uncle to do everything for her AND ONLY HER. In college I panicked and sent my Uncle a letter about my financial situation hoping to get some help in some way. As soon as they got the letter, my Aunt or his wife tore it up so he wouldn't see it. That's bad so he never got it. It's wierd though because her philipino nephew needed someone to suck his dick and mommy was no longer around to suck his dick for him so My Aunt tried to push him on me.

It's also like Narcissist ignore reality and they basic social paremeters of reality in this case because they have lotso monies and are able to ignore people and ignore reality. What I mean is they don't need anyone. In real life people have to depend on eachother somewhat, but not in their worlds. I give you some food and you give me some money. In their worlds they expect people to give them everything without even having a thought of helping someone out if you can and have the ability to do for someone else.  It's like they are hard driven to only think of themselves at all times no matter what. It's not reality and there is no excuse for it.

Back to my Aunt and her nephews and their insatiable needs. For 16 years I asked everyone for a job including my Uncle and got absolutely nothing, nada. Everytime I asked I instantly got ignored. So 16 years and I HAVE NOTHING, no job, marriage, no kids. All of a sudden it's Christmas and ugly phillipino man needs his cokc sucked and starts hitting on me at family Christmas gatherings and I want to oh nevermind. My Uncle gave his wives nephew a job and he was making damn good money had his own marriage, life, food whatever the fukc he wanted. I wonder if he waits until he is comforatable and his cokc is soft and floppy before he goes to the dentist or pay his mortgage. Because according to my Uncle and family they are so great they ignore their feelings.